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Why My Story Will Shock You… And How
After What Seemed To Be An Endless Dry
Spell With Women, I Eventually Became
Able To Consistently Get Phone Numbers
And Dates With Amazing Women.
If you’re thinking about buying any of those dating books for men that claim to be able to help you attract more women, I’m extremely relieved that you’ve found my blog because not only will my story shock you, it’ll almost certainly save your time, your money as well as a lot of embarrassing rejection from women in public.
I will tell you exactly why over a 4 month period I tried but was forced to give up with methods such as Double Your Dating, Mystery Method, Neil Strauss and a range of other dating “guru” plans… and how I finally managed to turn around my dating life with a unique program called “Approach and Attract”.
My name is Steve Jacob and like so many men out there, after being sick and tired of being dateless, I spent months desperately trying to turn around my life and start dating the kind of women I wanted.
I was never that good with women. I spent most of my twenties without a girlfriend. So when I met my long term girlfriend Kim in 2006, it was amazing. I treated her well and we had a great relationship, However, in January 2008, she broke up with me and started dating another guy. I was devastated and I tried to get her back. I honestly didn’t know how long it would be before I could get another girlfriend.
I Spent Months Alone, Not
Getting One Single Date.
After Kim broke up with me, my social life took a total downturn. I spent my Saturday nights alone, or hanging out with my guy friends. My life was just work, TV and hanging out with friends. My dating life was non existent. Some of my friends used to make fun of me because I couldn’t get a date to save my life and things didn’t get any better from there.
After a few months of a non existent sex life I actually did get set up on a date by my buddy and his wife. However, after the date I moved in to kiss the woman and she actually backed away from me. She told me she just wanted to be friends. My confidence was shattered. The first date I had for months wasn’t attracted to me in the slightest. I went home and actually cried. I was at rock bottom.
That was the point when I realized I had to do something about it.
I Tried The Pick Up Artist
Thing & Failed Miserably…
At the time, becoming a pick up artist was the ‘in thing’ to do and after speaking to two of my friends who had had moderate success with it, I decided to give it a go.
At first it worked out reasonably well and I began to get a phone number or two each weekend; and although that wasn’t exactly something to get too excited about, at least it was a start. And any ’start’ was good!
However, after a few weeks, things began to go downhill. One of the major issues with using pick up tricks is that it’s now in the mainstream. There is a popular show on VH1, “The Pickup Artist” that a lot of women watch and also a NY Times best selling book. Women started to call me out on it in public.
No matter what I tried I kept getting caught out. Girls kept asking me if I was a pick up artist. Even some of their guy friends knew about it. One time a guy got angry and actually shoved me. One girl also started yelling at me in front of the whole bar, calling me a creep and that was pretty embarrassing. This was the point where I realized I had to stop.
I Then Tried Other Dating Programs For
Men But Was Forced To Give Them Up…
After only a few weeks using Double Your Dating I was fed up. Their DVD’s simply had a guy reading off Powerpoint slides for 10 hours. But the problem was that I kept running out of things to say when I met women. After all those seminars, they never actually told me what to say to attract a woman.
The most worrying thing of all was that I spending so much money on their dating programs. I was going back to their website what seemed like every two minutes to purchase yet another course because it seemed like they never told me what to do, just covered the same “be a man’s man” stuff.
I then tried a range of dating plans such as Real Social Dynamics, Guy Gets Girl and Pickup 101 but because they didn’t have good step by step plans to follow, I found myself spending more time watching courses at home than actually going out. I soon realized that if I was actually going to start going out and dating more women in the real world, it just wasn’t realistic.
Eventually, I found something that worked…
Having spent so much time, money and energy desperately trying to succeed with dating methods and plans that in the end had very little effect on my dating life was a big regret. However, it all changed with the next thing I tried called Approach And Attract.
Personally, I had never heard of it before and due to my recent experiences, I was initially a little dubious. However, after reading some extremely complimentary reviews and learning that the cost was very low compared to some of the others I was considering, I decided to give it a shot.
What seemed to be so different with this program was that a major consideration was not only inner game but also complete external game. I learned some astonishing mistakes that 97% of men always make in everyday situations with women overtime and how they can actually turn women off instantly.
More importantly, however, I discovered 10 rules for approaching a woman in everyday situations, exactly what to say and do to get her attracted to me and also how to get a phone number and a date that leads to sex and a relationship if I want one by acting in the way that they tell me.
Here’s why I recommend it…
The reason why I would recommend Approach And Attract to anyone is because I’ve been following their plan for 28 days now and the results have been almost unbelievable.
Although I didn’t get my first date as fast as the 1 date every 2 days that is claimed on the website, I have managed to date 5 very attractive women in just under a month; and I’m sure you’ll agree that is pretty astonishing, especially when you consider I haven’t had to alter my busy lifestyle in anyway.
Both my fear of approaching women and shyness have gone a long way to disappearing and I’m almost at the stage of being able to make out with a woman the very same night I first meet her!
In my opinion, this is way more superior and far more effective than any of these other methods I tried. Obviously, different things work for different people but it has worked extremely well for me and the genial part is you simply follow their systemized plan that’s made for you. They tell you what to say. You say it - and women get attracted to you! What could be simpler? You certainly don’t have to learn weird tricks and figure everything out yourself which was a real pain with the other ones I tried.
Anyway, I hope you’ve found this information useful whatever your situation because if I had known about Approach And Attract a few months back, I would have been dating amazing women ages ago without wasting my time and money with everything else. Anyway, I wish you every success!
